"They say that nobody is perfect. Then they tell you practice makes perfect. I wish they'd make up their minds."
Winston Churchill
I'm just going to step out on a limb for this post... so bear with me :) I know alot of time when I read different blogs everything seems to be perfect. They have perfect families, perfect children, perfect pictures, perfect words, perfect everything. And I also know that it is so easy for me to write posts like that as well. It's so easy to create a "perfect" looking family by just writing about the good things. But ya know, some of the blogs that I find the most encouraging are written by women who write about the good and the bad. So... with all of that being said... I would like to invite you to have a peek of my imperfect life :)
Just for starters... so that you don't think I'm all talk.. take a look at our bedroom.
It looks like a bomb went off. We live in a little two bedroom house. My little sister lives here with us as well for the time being (she's working on getting her own place... I have done a good job of convincing her to stay here as long as she wants! Love it! P.S. she's a hairdresser so if you need your done I would love to refer you to her!) So, anyways... Bekka and Emma share a bedroom. And then Colty is in our room with us. It's a tight squeeze but I love it! Now.. back to the bedroom. At one time the room was decorated for kids. But now that Trav and I are in there I thought it could use some grownup decor. So over the past two months I have been taking down and changing things... which leads to a giant mess in our little cottage. Simply because there is NOWHERE to put the extra stuff! So go ahead..take a look...and don't pass out while looking at the disaster!
Okay...so the bedroom is anything but perfect :) And for those who wonder where Colty sleeps...there is a crib in the corner to the far left that you can't see! I'll keep you posted with the redo of the room!
Now for some stories from our week that are anything but perfect...
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This morning the kids were playing happily while I was making pancakes for breakfast (sounds perfect..right?!). While the pancakes were cooking I walked past the bathroom to check on the kids. And as I was placed my right heel down on the floor to take another step I began to slide along. For a moment I thought maybe Emma had dropped a strawberry or some sort of food. Then I looked down and I had stepped on a turd. Yes...a turd. I then looked further and saw another one. There was a trail that led to the bathroom. Turns out it was Emma's... still not sure what happened? :)
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Last night at supper I made cheese grits for Emma (or Cheese Grips as she likes to call them). I had set her bowl of grits on the table next to Colt's bowl of carrot baby food. I turned my back for one second and the next thing I know there were cheese grits and smashed carrots all over the floor, table, clean laundry sitting on the table and in their hair. Emma said Colt did it (he was sitting close to the table in his high-chair)... still not sure what happened? (do you see a pattern here?! :) )
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So there you have it... just a few imperfect stories from the past 24 hours. The reason I write all of this about imperfection is because I find it so refreshing when we are all just open with what's going on FOR REAL in our lives! When I go out for dinner with my girlfriends we don't talk about how perfect our lives are... we talk about what's really going on. And from there we encourage each other and share stories like the ones above. Because that's real life :)
So... please share some imperfect stories and pictures :) Link up below!
Hope everybody has a great Wednesday!!!
And that's why I love you Ashley! If I wasn't so far buried under boxes I'd show you our current state of affairs!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness.... I love everything about it. Especially the turd. That is stinkin (literally!) hilarious. I have done that but with a dog turd. That is a whole nutha' story. I love your blog. Thanks so much for leaving a comment on mine. I am looking forward to coming back!
ReplyDeleteI totally laughed out loud...first with the picture, next with the turd story. I'm too lazy right now to go and take a picture of my totally imperfect house...let's just say it's pathetic! Until 2 days ago, I had about 5 loads of laundry stacked up in the baby's room...and that doesn't count the other pile of hand-me-downs I need to go through. And that's just the baby's room! I could go on and on...
ReplyDeleteLoved your post!
Thank you for reminding me that we ALL live in your world!! With two toddlers my house always looks like a tornado hit... Willy is really into tearing books right now so his room is filled with small pieces of paper that Jacqueline loves to eat!! Your beautiful and I love ya!!
ReplyDeleteI love this post! I love you for being imperfect, even though I think you're pretty perfect!
ReplyDeleteMy friend needs a new hair stylist...what's her info???
ReplyDeleteHaha loved the stories!
ReplyDeleteFabulous post!! I sure love you... and I'm sure the common denominator in both messes wasn't Emma!! She is "Gamma's" little jewel. Must have been Colty. :-)
ReplyDeleteOh man, my comment didn't post last night. You know we aren't perfect around here!!! I have a pile of clean laundry so high on my dining room table that needs to be folded and put away, but instead I choose to walk by with blinders on and play instead! :) That's what life is about isn't it??? I will have to take pics later and link up. Thanks for being "imperfect"...I love you for that too. :)
ReplyDeleteHa! This is pretty funny...let's see here as I think about my week- Got home yeseterday to find some nastiness from a little sweet dog all over our bathtub...have a pile of my clothes hanging over my rack in my closet (for some reason I think that makes it better than being on the floor) AND I really need to shave my legs now that it's warm outside! The only thing worth taking a picture of might just be my closet-the rest might just gross you out...he!
ReplyDeleteI love it! Thanks for being real!
ReplyDeleteI always love blogs that are honest. NONE of us live in fairy tale land ... but some blogs sure try to pretend that they do.
ReplyDeleteMy life is so not perfect ... but my God is perfect, and that's what matters.
This week:
... walking through TOUGH stuff with my young adult children. So not fun!
... walking through TOUGH stuff in my marriage. LOVE that guy ... but after 27 years, marriage still isn't easy.
... young ones struggling because Papa and the teens are living on the island, and Mama and the young ones are living at the old house, waiting for the house to sell. (Living apart definitely doesn't help the marriage, especially when it's been a TOUGH year all around.)
BUT ... hangin' on to Jesus ... trusting that HE has a plan ... knowing that we WILL get through this, and there WILL be JOY on the other side ...
Thanks for sharing that your life isn't perfect, either.
Laurel :)
Thanks for stopping by my blog and for the sweet comment. I don't FEEL cute, at all, but it's so nice to hear :)
ReplyDeleteI loved this post. I try to be real on my blog and LOVE other bloggers who do the same!!! It's so refreshing.
I linked you to my blog from a post I wrote in 2008...a day I remember so vividly!!! Love your honesty!! :)
ReplyDeleteLove the honesty, makes me and my own little fam. seem normal again :-) There's other moms out there just like ME! Yeah for imperfect moms!
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